For as long as we’ve heard, men don’t ever need foreplay.
For men, evolution has taught their shorts to go stiff as soon as they see an opportunity.
But is it always true?
As much as we’d like to believe that men don’t need foreplay, it’s just not true.
At the beginning of the Marriage or relationship, all a guy needs to see is a flash of his Wife or Girlfriend’s skin to get ready for the act.
But as time goes by, things can start to get rather repetitive and obvious.
And when there’s no novelty anymore, you definitely need to start focusing on his mind more than his little head to keep him excited in bed.
Give your man something extra special to think about by indulging in these foreplay tips that can get him to appreciate your body and exercise his sexual mind at the same time.
Be sexily unpredictable, and he’ll awe you. Get his horny mind working and he’ll always get aroused by you and your dirty talk.
Use these 8 tips to do just that.
#1 Watch porn in bed.
Watching porn can be a great way to help bring both of you closer. It’s exciting and stimulating as long as both of you are comfortable with appreciating other people’s bodies in front of each other. The focus here isn’t on just watching, but replicating the moves you see on the screen in your own bed.
A good half an hour of watching porn and having hands run all over each other can delay sex and excite both of you for a great round of foreplay.
#2 Dress up for him.
Your man may be used to seeing you naked around the house. But that doesn’t mean he can’t get turned on by you when you wear your bare minimum. As foreplay, dress up for him and wear racy lingerie.
The sexier you look, the longer he’d want you to keep your lingerie on as he gropes all over you. Sometimes, all you need is a new look to get the blood flowing in his loins.
#3 Massage him.
A massage is a perfectly sensual way to give him a happy ending at the end of the day. Bring out your massage oils and scented candles, talk sexy as you stroke him and move your body against him, and all he’d want to do is have sex with you.
#4 Recreate sexual fantasies.
When both of you slip into bed, talk naughty with your man. You don’t even need to touch him to play foreplay. Just sit close to him and whisper about the first time he touched you or played with your breasts. Or remind him about the way both of you felt when you first had sex together.
Talking sexy has a great impact on a man’s little organ. It creates a sexy world of imagination with limitless possibilities that can lead to a sexy rush even before he gets inside you.
#5 Have a bath together.
If both of you are not particularly in the mood for a fancy night out in town, slip into a bathtub and just relax in each other’s arms. You can bring out the candles and wear a sheer cotton shirt in the tub before revealing it all to him. Don’t focus on sex right away. Instead, just play with each other’s bodies. It would be the perfect round of foreplay to invigorate him after a long day at work.
#6 Role play with each other.
Role playing is the perfect idea of foreplay to keep your man in the mood, without focusing on sex. Dress up in his favorite fantasy characters and tease him. You could even tie him up or just let him explore your body without undressing you. Recreating his secret fantasies is one of the sexiest ideas of foreplay for any man.
#7 Sexy secrets.
Dress sexy when you go out, or even if you’re at home with a few friends. But don’t wear a bra. Do something outrageous, even if no one else can notice it.
And out of the blue, go close to him and whisper your little secret in his ear that you’re not wearing a bra inside your tee shirt / underwear under your skirt. It doesn’t matter if it’s not obvious to anyone else. What matters is that your man knows your sexy secret. And chances are, he’ll get on foreplay mode almost as soon as he hears your secret.
#8 It’s all in his head.
To turn a guy on, everything is in his head. While physical attraction may be important, it also takes a few mind games to seduce your man once you’ve been in a relationship for a while. Make him feel like what you’re doing is sexy and he’ll always get aroused by you. And isn’t sexual arousal the first step of any successful foreplay?
Foreplay for men can be a pleasurable and sexy experience for both of you, just as long as you remember to focus on his mind and get him to focus on your body. Just use these 8 foreplay tips for men and you’ll be able to do all that and more.
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